BDSM

When partners present with different sexual wants in their relationship it can get them stuck. It can mean they question the viability of their relationship even if they still love each other, or perhaps be a reason for infidelity. One partner really wants to do this sexually, the other is repulsed by it. A shaming … [Read more…]

When I mention to friends and fellow therapists that many of my clients practice BDSM, typical responses range from “Wow, you must hear some stories!” to “I just couldn’t relate to people who get off on pain and abuse.” The truth is, most people don’t really understand BDSM – an acronym derived from Bondage and … [Read more…]